There are endless choices when it comes to wedding invitations. It can be difficult to choose between them all and find the perfect suite that will best suit your wedding. The idea of elegance almost goes hand in hand with weddings, and the idea of elegant wedding invitations can encompass many different styles. We hope that our designers’ picks from our elegant range will help you find the right one for you.
We know that leaves are a popular feature in wedding invitations for a reason. Our leaves and botanical breeze suites work well in combining botanical themes with elegance and fit both categories perfectly. The almost-white backgrounds contrast beautifully with the darker leaves and highlight their movement, creating the elegant style.
Continuing with this simplicity, sometimes small gorgeous flowers at the top of an invitation are all you need. Our gold stems and traditional pink suites will definitely tick the boxes if this is the case. The illustrative flowers compliment the elegant text underneath. They also show that multiple text styles can work, as both the calligraphy and serif styles fit perfectly here. The colours really compliment the idea of elegance too, with the gold text in the gold stems suite and a beautiful pink in the traditional pink suite!
Lastly, we think our art deco tiles suite is a great contribution to our elegant invitation range. The symmetrical line work creates a classy feel, emphasised by the gold and simple font choice. Similar to the previous suites, the white background is a lovely choice here to contrast with this gold. A diamond shape is the very definition of elegance, so we added a smaller diamond motif at the top and bottom.
We hope these picks can help you with your invitation search, and if you’d like to browse more, head over to our elegant wedding invitations range for many more design suites.
Chocolate… need we say more? Life is like a box of chocolates. But with Bookblock, you definitely know what you’re going to get! Handcrafted treats from the world’s finest chocolatiers, rich, smooth and bursting with flavour. Because when it comes to Mother’s Day, only the best will do.
Keep it simple with classic Belgian recipes or mix things up with inventive concoctions from chocolate’s most creative minds. Take a wander through our chocolate factory and see what takes your fancy. Why not pick up something for yourself too? We promise that we’ll keep it from mum!
Cocktails to shake it up Every mum deserves a little tipple this Mother’s Day. As well as award-winning wines and champagnes, we’ve got something for the mamas who don’t mind shaking things up. So for a Mother’s Day gift that’s a little bit different, take a look at our range of cocktails.
From classic blends to modern masterpieces, we’ve scoured the country to discover some of the best cocktails around. It’s a tough job, but someone had to do it. Add a mini tipple to your Mother’s Day gift box for an extra drop of decadence.
Accessories for that final flourish Being a mum comes with its own sense of style. And while she may not have approved of that double denim phase, we’re sure that she’ll love our range of accessory gifts. Not only do they offer some understated chic, but they can also be used time and time again. Perfect if you’re looking for a Mother’s Day gift that lasts a little longer.
Whatever her personality, we’ve got you covered. Our range of characterful tote bags is perfect for 24/7 lifestyles while our designer silk scarves add a touch of elegance to any outfit. In fact, they’re so stylish you may end up pinching it back!
Pamper perfection for ultimate luxury If there’s one day that mum deserves a little me-time it’s Mother’s Day. But at Bookblock, we think me-time should be done in style. This year, treat her to the very best with a collection of indulgent pamper goodies from some of our favourite beauticians.
Build your own bath gift box with salts and soaps made from 100% natural ingredients. Or go full spa mode with face masks and body scrubs from anti-ageing experts. Not sure where to start? Take a look at our curated gift boxes for some Mother’s Day inspiration.
Active gifts for non-stop mums If your mum prefers being on her feet to putting her feet up, we’ve got you covered. Our eclectic range of active gifts is perfect for mums on the move. Whatever her passion, we’ll help her indulge it.
Fitness fanatics will love our yoga-inspired gifts. Or if she’s a gardening guru, treat her to some green-fingered goodies like seed kits and designer trowels. Artistic? Our range of craft gifts is perfect for unleashing her imagination. Why not treat yourself to some and get creative together?
Flowers… with a twist Same old Mother’s Day, same old boring bouquet. Well not anymore. We’ve taken this classic Mother’s Day gift idea and given it our own unique spin. Bookblock bouquets (try saying that three times fast) come dried so, unlike fresh flowers, they can last for years.
We prepare all our bouquets by hand for an extra personal touch. Send them on their own or as a final finish to a Mother’s Day gift box. They’re the perfect way to remind your mum just how special she is.
Did someone say bubbles? Is there anything better than flowers? How about flowers and champagne? This classic combination doesn’t have to be dreary. As well as our bespoke dried bouquets we’ve sourced some of the finest bubbles around.
Give your gift box a little extra sparkle with a miniature prosecco bottle or go all out with some vintage champagne. Even if you can’t be together this Mother’s Day, you can make sure she raises a glass.
Personalised stationery One of a kind mums deserve one of a kind gifts. If you’re looking for a truly special Mother’s Day treat, check out our range of customisable stationery. From notebooks to diaries, we have a range of designs waiting for that personal touch.
Choose your cover and customise it with her name, a favourite quote or a heartfelt message. They’re perfect for journaling or planning her next adventure. And after all these Mother’s Day gifts, she’ll need somewhere to write her thank yous.
However you treat your mum this Mother’s Day, make it one to remember. And don’t forget to add a personalised card. Our range of hand-drawn designs is just the thing to put a smile on her face… and yours too!
Make it personal
No two people are the same, so why should thank you gifts be any different? Give your loved ones something special with a piece of personalised stationery. Whether it’s a diary for dad or a notebook for nana, make something unique to them with a wide range of covers and your own choice of text. Explore our range of personalised stationery and get creative today.
Choc it to ‘em
Nothing says thank you like a touch of the sweet stuff. Luckily, we’ve sourced the greatest chocolate gifts from the world’s finest confectioners. Show your appreciation with handmade Belgian truffles or spice things up with quirky creations that would make Willy Wonka blush. No golden tickets needed here, mind.
In the good books
Every thank you tells a story. Our range of books is just the thing to turn yours into a masterpiece. Give the gift of a classic novel or spark their imagination with handy guides on food, wellbeing and more. Small enough to fit through the letterbox, they make lovely thank you presents – you can take that as read.
Cheers!
Looking for some thank you gift inspiration? Pop the cork on our alcohol inspired gifts and raise a glass to your loved ones. From handcrafted cocktails and barrel-aged whiskeys to award-winning wine and champagne, we’ve tracked down some tremendous tipples from world-renowned producers. There’s no better way to raise their spirits.
Blooming marvellous Colourful, fragrant and drop-dead gorgeous, flowers are the ideal way to say thank you. But at Bookblock, we’ve put our own spin on the timeless classic. Our dried arrangements are handmade to order and give your thank you gift box a little extra wow factor. Unlike fresh flowers, these arrangements live for years so they’re perfect for a long-lasting memento.
Signed, sealed, delivered We’ll admit it. We’re a little card crazy over here. Our team of illustrators are always creating new and beautiful designs to help you say thank you in style. As well as exclusive designs from some of the UK’s best artists, we offer personalised cards for something extra special. Add a personal touch with a custom message and we’ll take care of the rest.
Put pen to paper
Remember the excitement of back to school supplies? Relight that fire and send a little thrill with our range of beautiful stationery. From jotters and journals to workbooks and sketchpads, you’ll find one of a kind designs that are perfect for saying thank you.
Scrub up nicely We all deserve to be spoiled every now and then. Show your gratitude with gorgeous pamper gifts from the world’s best beauty experts. Give them a little me-time with indulgent bath soaps or leave them feeling fabulous with rejuvenating creams and cleansers. With dozens of gift ideas for him and her, you’ll never be short of ways to say thank you.
Food glorious food One of the best bits at Bookblock HQ is tracking down the tastiest treats. Our range of savoury gifts is great for thanking the foodie in your life. Treat them to storecupboard specialities from all over the world or send them a picnic gift box full of artisan delights. They’re so good, you may have to keep some for yourself.
Playtime You’re never too old for a bit of fun. If you’re looking to say thank you to the littlun in your life, explore our range of toys and games. From cuddly toys to pleasing puzzles, there’s something for every personality. With vibrant colours and eco-conscious materials, they’re perfect for kids and parents alike.
Make their house a home Why not say thank you with some stylish homeware? We’ve sourced unique home gifts that give any space a little extra cosiness. Give them a breath of fresh air with scented candles from artisan designers or add a splash of colour with our eye-catching crockery. It’s a lovely way to send a lasting reminder of just how much you care.
Anyone for tea? You don’t have to put on the Ritz to send your loved ones a beautiful thank you. Our selection of teatime gifts is great for some afternoon extravagance at home. Keep it classic or mix things up with fruit-inspired blends from around the world. But no tea is complete without a treat or two. Our range of biscuits, honey and jams should do the trick. Room for one more by any chance?
Goodness gracious What better way to show your appreciation than with a helping of the good stuff? Fitness fanatics will love our range of wellness goodies. We’ve sourced the best vitamins, supplements and heart-healthy treats, all made from body-boosting ingredients. They’re just the thing to give your thanks and set their pulses racing.
Family matters Sometimes the biggest gifts come from the smallest hands. Send your love to the parents of a newborn with some gorgeous thank you gifts. Wrap them up warm with adorable socks or nourish their skin with bambino-friendly pampering. While you’re at it, why not add a bottle of bubbly for mum and dad? We’re sure they wouldn’t mind.
Send some good vibes We could all use some more positive energy. Give your thank you a little extra zeal with a gift from our positivity range. Harnessing the power of nature, these gifts bring peace and serenity to any home. From healing crystals to soothing incense, you’ll find something to put a smile on their face.
We wait until the coldest, darkest and saddest time of year to deny ourselves of everything we love. Forget celery cleanses and 5 am spin classes, New Year’s resolutions should nourish us with the things we need to brave the winter.
And what better way to start the year than with a good read? I’ve assembled ten of my favourite books for starting the year with a bang. Whether you’re looking for lifestyle advice or a page-turning thriller, I’ve got you covered.
Resolutions are much easier said than done. But luckily Charles Duhigg has scoured the psychological depths to help you turn words into action. This award-winning book focuses on the habits of the world’s most successful organisations and gives practical advice for transforming the way we think, work and do.
Far from your bog-standard self-help book, The Power of Habit has been praised by psychologists and business people all over the world for its scientific insight. Whether you’re looking to lose a few pounds or start your own business, this book has the power to change your life, one habit at a time.
A lot has changed since 1936. But 15 million copies and a spot on TIME Magazine’s most influential books of all time shows you that Dale Carnegie’s classic is just as useful as ever. But How to Win Friends… isn’t just a business book, it’s a timeless manual for positive interaction with others.
According to Carnegie, success is all about ‘the ability to express ideas, to assume leadership and to arouse enthusiasm among people.’ This book will show you how to do all three with simple techniques used by some of history’s most noteworthy figures. Perfect for business buffs and people-watchers alike.
If you haven’t heard of Rupi Kaur yet, where have you been? The fiercely talented Canadian poet shot to the top of the New York Times bestsellers list with her mesmerising debut collection in 2014. And Milk and Honey is as powerful now as it was then.
Split into four sections, Kaur’s debut clears a path through the full spectrum of human emotion. She examines love, loss, violence and anger with youthful vivacity and understated charm. Milk and Honey proves that there is sweetness even in life’s most bitter moments.
Parenting. It’s a breeze, right? Well, Pamela Druckerman’s hilarious memoir gives us hope that raising children can in-fact be easy, stress-free and surprisingly chic. This autobiographical tale tells the story of a New Yorker turned Parisian who discovered a whole new way to bring up les enfants in the heart of France.
It’s packed with interviews, anecdotes and first hand-experiences that will ring true on either side of the Channel. Witty, informative and incredibly funny, French Children Don’t Throw Food is the perfect gift idea for parents.
Ever wondered why we get butterflies in our bellies or always side with our gut-feeling? Dr Emeran Mayer is here to help you understand one of the most important relationships in the human body.
Mayer breaks down the dynamic between the brain, gut and microbiome (that’s the millions of microorganisms that call your digestive tract home). With practical advice, he shows us that a few simple changes can lead to healthy bodies and healthy minds. Food for thought indeed.
If you’re looking for the key to a better diet, Jenny Linford may just have the missing ingredient. This insightful book explores the crucial relationship between food and time looking at everything from the caramelisation of sugar to the fermentation of award-winning champagnes.
Linford travels across the world asking artisans and experts their opinion on patience. Her findings are fascinating! So whether you’re a seasoned chef or an aspiring foodie, The Missing Ingredient will transform the way you think about food.
We live in strange times. Luckily, author and funny man Daniel Mallory Ortberg is on hand to deconstruct pop culture with his trademark irreverence. This collection of essays takes a sideways glance at everything from tyrants to Twitter.
With the choppy waters of the new normal moving ever closer, Ortberg’s razor-sharp wit is on hand to steady the ship. Funny, insightful and refreshingly down-to-earth, Something That May Shock and Discredit will leave you laughing and \perhaps scratching your head.
American historian Tara Westover has lived a life unlike any other. Educated tells the story of her astonishing upbringing in the mountains of Idaho. After being kept from schools her whole life, she set out to educate herself on a journey that would take her over oceans to Harvard and Cambridge.
Endorsed by none other than the fabulous Michelle Obama, this real-life memoir is an incredible read. Packed with honesty, drama and moments of poignancy, Educated has a lesson for all of us.
If you want to start your year with a dose of positivity, Rebecca Solnit’s Hope in the Dark is a must-read. This powerful book draws on Solnit’s decades of environmental and social activism to find the antidote for an uncertain world. Hope.
Hope in the Dark was originally released back in 2004 but its message of optimism is perhaps even more potent now. Read it, share it, pass it on. Hope in the Dark should be read by everyone.
Winner of the Booker Prize 2019, Girl, Woman, Other weaves the interconnected stories of twelve black women living in modern-day Britain. Each character is unique and electric and opens up the stories that are so rarely explored in fiction today.
Evaristo tackles race, religion, identity and class with warmth, humour and intelligence, as she celebrates the very best of modern British culture. Girl, Woman, Other is the perfect book to start the new year.
Armed with a gallon of coffee, we get to our desk and scribble down a to-do list as long as the River Nile. From dry cleaning to plant preening, every task takes pride of place.
Whether you love them or hate them, to-do lists are pretty addictive.
But is it time to rethink our love affair with task tidying? And are our to-do lists actually stopping us from being as productive as possible?
Let’s take a look.
Back in my day
It’s one of the few bits of advice that has stuck with me my entire life. Make a list and cross them off. From primary school right through to my first job, I heard those same words time and time again.
And it makes perfect sense. Committing our tasks to paper is a great way of seeing what we need to do and how we can go about doing it. But the problems come in crossing them off. Rather than helping us feel on top of things, to-do lists can actually leave us more frustrated than when we started. Here are a few ways to make your to-do lists start working for you.
Keep it brief
I’ll hold my hands up. I am terrible at knowing how long a task will take. If my to-do lists were accurate, I would have done a weekly shop, learned how to juggle and written a symphony all before lunch.
And it happens to a lot of us. According to some studies, only 17% of us can accurately guess how long a task will take to complete. Under pressure from work and social appointments, we get tend to get a little ambitious.
So despite all our best intentions, our to-do lists can be doomed from the start. It’s no wonder so many of them end up rolling over into tomorrow. The constant cycle of never-ending tasks can leave us feeling overwhelmed.
But one way we can tame our to-dos is to keep them brief. Limit your list to five tasks a day. That way, even if you don’t complete them all, your to-do list hangover stays manageable.
Give it time
A task without a timeframe is like a car without a steering wheel. Sure it may be powerful, but who knows where it might end up?
That’s because we’re creatures of habit. Our brains are built around schedule and order. A jumbled list of to-do tasks leaves us cold and uninspired. But draw up a schedule and things kick into gear. But how can we put this into practice?
Consider investing in a calendar or a good old-fashioned diary. Under each day, write down your tasks and a time at which you can do them, being as realistic as possible. By committing our to-dos to a specific timeframe, we incentivise our brains to get them done.
Prioritise
I am an expert dawdler. In fact, I put the pro in procrastination. And when it comes to to-do lists, things only get worse. By the time I’ve drawn up my tally of tasks, I’m already looking for the ones that will kill some time.
Complete that work report? I’d much rather clean out the rabbit hutch. I can’t send those emails I’m afraid, I’m alphabetising my record collection.
Ticking off the simple tasks is an easy way to give ourselves some gratification while avoiding the hard graft. But getting our priorities right is incredibly difficult. However, there are some simple tricks that can help us along the way.
When drawing up your to-do list, give extra weight to the things that will make the greatest impact on your day. In other words, prioritise the tasks that future you would most appreciate.
Look the part
What was your last to-do list written on? An envelope? The back or a receipt? If you’re anything like me, your waste paper bin is full of half ticked to-dos from days gone by.
The truth is, the less care and attention we put into something, the less importance we give it. If our to-dos lists are scrawled on a scrap of paper, we might as well treat them like, well, a scrap of paper.
So the next time you sit down to pen a to-do, make an event of it. Assign yourself a special journal and write down your tasks with care and precision. The nicer it is to look at, the more likely we are to treat it with respect.
If you want to stay really organised, assign separate spaces for daily, weekly and monthly tasks. You can always move them around to fit your schedule.
Sharing is caring
To-do lists may feel like personal property but opening them up to others is a great way of helping us stick to them. All too often, we can toss them away without any reflection or repercussions.
But sharing our to-do lists with someone we trust immediately gives it more clout. It doesn’t mean they have to be breathing down your neck 24/7. But a good accountability partner can help you evaluate what’s really important and push you to get things finished.
Why not team up with a friend or partner and share your to-do lists with each other? Then treat one another when you tick them all off.
Be good to yourself
The biggest danger of broken to-do lists is how they can make us feel. Sometimes we bite off more than we can chew. It doesn’t mean we have to feel sorry for ourselves.
And while we can’t magic up more hours in the day, we can boost our energy for the time that we do have. So never underestimate the power of sleep, exercise and good nutrition.
Perhaps it’s time we put those things at the top of our to-do lists.
Every year, we send nearly 900 million Christmas cards. 900 million! That’s more per person than any other country in the world.
And I’ll let you in on a little secret. I absolutely love them. From the first red-breasted robin to the last bawdy limerick, I can’t get enough of Christmas cards. I store them on mantles, I hang them on walls, I even fold them into origami nativity scenes (maybe not that last one).
As soon as that first emerald envelope hits my doormat, I get all giddy knowing that Christmas is just around the corner. But why do we love this tradition so much? And if you’re a first-time sender, how can you fully embrace the joy of card giving?
Here are seven reasons why this is the year to start sending Christmas cards.
An age-old tradition
Let’s begin at the beginning, shall we? The name Henry Cole may not ring any Christmas bells. But we have him to thank for the Christmas card as we know it today. Back in 1843, the then civil servant teamed up with artist and friend John Horsley to create the very first Christmas card.
The simple design depicted a hearty family Christmas dinner, complete with turkey and wine-supping children (no, honestly!). Since then, designs have varied from the traditional to the downright bizarre. And these little gestures have been spreading joy for over 150 years.
From me to you
Whichever style you prefer, Christmas cards all share one thing in common. They last. In the age of social media and instant messaging, a Christmas caption can be bashed out in seconds and shared with the entire world. A Christmas card, on the other hand, isn’t so fleeting.
They act as a physical reminder of our care and affection to those we love. Rather than being resigned to the trash folder, Christmas cards take pride of place in our homes (for a few days at least). In a world where things are designed to be consumed in seconds, there’s something beautiful about a handwritten Christmas card.
From the heart
Like writing a good letter (link to letter writing article), penning a Christmas card forces us to slow down and consider what we’re saying. Because we can’t backspace our way out of trouble, every word counts.
In fact, some of the most touching letters I’ve ever received have been Christmas cards. It’s incredible how open and honest we can be when we pick up a pen. They’re wonderful for the reader too. In a recent study, 83 per cent of people said a handwritten message involved more thought and feeling than a simple text.
So if you haven’t tried it before, make this year the year to send a message from the heart.
Works of art
If you’re anything like me, you adore great design. And if you think Christmas cards aren’t the place for it, think again. Over the last few years, artists have turned cards into an amazing platform for sharing their work with the world.
Plus have you seen Christmas cards recently? They’re things of beauty! I don’t mean the ones of Santa Claus passed out after too many sherries. I mean the ones hand-drawn by expert illustrators. If you haven’t already, check out our range of festive favourites.
So if you’re stuck for Christmas gift ideas, a handwritten Christmas card could be the perfect solution.
‘Tis the season to be boastful
Let’s be honest. Who doesn’t love a good brag? When I was growing up, my dad used to compile an annual newsletter of all my family’s achievements. Whether we were passing our driving tests or playing innkeeper 2 in the school play, he would shout it to the heavens.
And who could blame him? Christmas cards are one of the few chances we get to be unashamedly boastful. Plus my innkeeper 2 was the talk of the town. So if you need an excuse to do a little self-promotion, Christmas cards might just be the ego boost you were looking for.
Write, lick, stamp, repeat
We each have our own little ways of getting in the festive spirit. Whether it’s the first sip of a gingerbread latte or a cheeky hit of Wham! in October, we all love getting in the mood for Christmas.
For me, it’s Christmas cards. Every year I set aside one glorious afternoon where I lick, stick and stamp my way into the season. Sure, it helps that I’m a stationery nut but if you’ve never tried it, you’re missing out.
There are, of course, a few key ingredients to the perfect Christmas card writing session. I would recommend a woolly jumper, a tall glass of mulled wine and a hearty dose of Michael Buble. Bliss.
Express yourself
One of the things I love most about Christmas cards is the chance to express yourself. From understated chic to silly family portraits, they’re a great chance to share a little piece of your personality with those you love most.
And with a wider choice than ever before, you’re bound to find something as unique as you. From subtle and sophisticated to bold and beautiful, there is a Christmas card out there waiting for you.
The future…
You’d be forgiven for thinking Christmas cards are on their way out. But recent research has shown that the next generation of Christmas carders are intent on keeping this wonderful tradition alive.
My advice? Choose quality over quantity. You don’t need to send them to every person you’ve ever met. Instead, pick a few close friends and family and send a card that they will love. You never know, it might just make their Christmas.
Whether you’re mad for a mocha or loopy for a long black, there’s nothing quite like the warm embrace of a steaming cup of joe. And love for the strong stuff stretches way beyond these shores. People all over the world have their own unique ways of bringing the best out of the bean. So before you reach for your next cup, take a look at these incredible world coffees and see if any take your fancy. Bottoms up!
Thailand
We start our journey out east. And in Thailand, the drink of choice is kaaffee tung. But rather than paper, it’s filtered through a fine cloth for an extra smooth texture. While this fruity coffee has a lovely undertone of coconut, locals prefer to sweeten the mix with sugar and condensed milk.
Hong Kong
Next up, it’s Hong Kong – the home of the Yuenyeung. This distinctive cross between tea and coffee is unlike anything else out there. It’s made from three parts coffee and seven parts milky tea so you get all the mellowness of a cuppa with a punchy caffeine hit. Lovely hot or cold.
Japan
Japan is home to kan kohi (that’s canned coffee to you and me). These joes on the go come in a huge variety of flavours, including hazelnut, caramel and vanilla so sweet tooths rejoice! Just don’t get caught sipping it on the subway, as drinking in public is against local etiquette.
Vietnam
Next, to Hanoi and the brilliantly bonkers ca phe trung. Translated as ‘egg coffee’, this unique blend is made by combing egg yolk, condensed milk, sugar, butter and coffee. The result is a gloriously rich Tiramisu-like brew that’s perfect for an after-dinner treat.
Indonesia
The fourth-largest producer of coffee in the world, Indonesia is home to the wonderfully inventive Kupi Khop. Served on a plate in an upside-down glass, this milky brew comes with a straw to slurp up all the goodness. For an Indonesian hit that’s a little less hands-on, try our Grumpy Mule Sumatra blend.
Australia
For years, Australia and New Zealand have been fighting it out to be declared the birthplace of the flat white. And while it may seem fairly new in the UK, Aussies have been using the term for decades to describe the silky blend of espresso and microfoam. Starbucks officially credited Oz with the hipster favourite but I’m keeping schtum on this one.
Morocco
If you’re a coffee purist, Morocco is the place for you. In the markets of Marrakesh, they blend a deliciously dark brew spiced with sesame, pepper and nutmeg. The result is a beautifully fragrant coffee that’s strong enough to keep you running all day long.
Turkey
Unlike many brews, Turkish coffee or Türk kahvesi comes unfiltered. Prepared in a copper pot called a cezve, tastes can vary from sweet and fruity to peppery and spicy. The leftover grounds can even be used for fortune-telling. What does the future hold? Another coffee probably.
Saudi Arabia
Brewed from 100% arabica coffee beans, Saudi Arabian qahwa is brewed using cardamon and saffron. This decadent coffee has some amazing health benefits and is known around the world as a powerful antioxidant. For a truly authentic cuppa, serve with dates in a handleless cup.
Ethiopia
Known to cofficianados across the globe, yirgacheffe is ranked among the world’s best coffees. Grown high above the sea and hand-picked by local experts, this distinctive bean has a fabulously fruity flavour. It tastes even better alongside sweet treats like Coco Chocolatier’s cold brew coffee chocolate.
Senegal
Moving west across Africa, we find Senegal’s famous cafe Touba. Like qahwa, it’s brewed from arabica beans but infused with cloves and black pepper. It’s genuinely spicy too. Whiskey drinkers will love its smokey heat.
Greece
Heading up into Europe, we find one of my favourites. Strong and sweet, Greece’s famous frappe is a favourite of locals and tourists alike. You can make it at home too. Just blend cold instant coffee, milk, sugar and ice cubes for a fabulously refreshing treat.
Spain
If you love all things sweet, Spain’s traditional cafe bombom is sure to delight. Born in Valencia, this decadent brew is made from equal parts espresso and condensed milk for a smooth, silky and seriously sweet coffee. Enjoy with papas fritas for a salty-sweet balance.
Italy
For many, Italy is the home of great coffee. And they don’t come more classic than the espresso Romano. It’s a single shot of espresso served with a fresh peel of lemon to bring out the coffee’s natural aromas. Best served with zingy gelato or a simple biscotti. Delizioso!
Germany
Berlin has one of the most experimental coffee scenes in Europe. But if you’re after something traditional, try a pharisäer. It’s a boozy beverage made with rum, whipped cream and super strong coffee. Definitely not for the faint-hearted.
Austria
Austria has been a must-visit for caffeine cravers for centuries. And locals will tell you a kaisemelange is the best of the best. This brew is made by mixing egg yolk and honey before adding strong black coffee. A subtly sweet blend with a decadent finish.
Finland
You may have tried butter in your coffee but have you tried cheese? Well, north Finland is home to the kaffeost – a strong black coffee with chunks of Finnish cheese. Served at the bottom of the cup, the cheese provides a pudding-like texture. There really is nothing else like it.
Ireland
Who doesn’t love a good Irish coffee? Made from Irish whiskey, cream and coffee it’s the perfect way to round off a meal. For the real deal, coffee pilgrims should visit Bailey Bar on Dublin’s famous Grafton Street.
Mexico
Hopping over the pond, you’ll find Mexico’s spectacular café de olla. Traditionally, this spiced coffee is prepared in an earthen clay pot using water, cinnamon and a raw dark sugar called piloncillo. Rich and fruity, it’s great if you’re looking for Christmas gift ideas.
Cuba
Coffee has become a cornerstone of Cuba’s vibrant culture. And no coffee is more iconic than a café Cubano. It’s made by mixing piping hot espresso with a cooling sweetened crema. Short and sweet, it’s the perfect coffee to enjoy at any time of day.
Argentina
Though Argentina doesn’t produce coffee of its own, its thriving coffee culture is among the best in the world. And a café lagrima is a real staple. It’s an espresso cup filled with milk with just a dash of coffee. Like a more mellow cortado, it’s perfect for part-time coffee drinkers.
Columbia
Where better to finish our journey than Columbia? Its well-balanced beans are perfect for a classic café con leche. Made from equal parts strong coffee and scalded milk, it’s similar to a latte but with a less creamy finish.
Got a coffee lover in your life? Check out our range of food and drink gifts including brewers, blends and books and keep them sipping all year long.
Born in Germany, these delightful popup markets have become a mainstay in the UK. Offering mulled wine, mince pies and a beautiful array of gift ideas, there’s nowhere better to get in the festive spirit.
So if you’re on the lookout for gift inspiration or simply a slice of stollen, you’ve come to the right place. Here are my top five favourite Christmas markets in the UK.
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Southbank Winter Festival
If you’re looking to embrace your inner Love Actually, look no further than London’s iconic Southbank. In the heart of the capital, this bustling market features Christmas gifts and festive goodies.
Foodies will love scoping out freshly baked mince pies and artisan Christmas puddings. Not to mention, some of the best street food from Thailand, India and Greece. And if you’re looking for unique Christmas gifts, you’re in luck. Some of London’s best designers will be showcasing their work.
There’ll be a great selection of entertainment too. As well as live appearances from Nadiya Hussain and folk star Kate Rusby, visitors can catch gigs, exhibitions and even a puppet musical rendition of Black Beauty. If that isn’t Christmassy, I don’t know what is.
Mulled wine and cider are guaranteed. Hugh Grant, unfortunately, is not.
When: 8th November – 26th January (10am-10pm)
Where: London’s Southbank Centre
Winchester Cathedral Christmas Market
This is one for the purists. Sitting in the shadow of Winchester’s spectacular cathedral, this Christmas market has been voted one of the best in Europe by the New York Post. And you can see why. Inspired by the traditional markets of Germany, Winchester’s Christmas fair is bursting with character.
Wander through over 100 chalets, each offering an array of Christmas gifts and seasonal produce. Discover the best in local crafts including handmade jewellery, apparel and homeware. And after all that perusing, treat yourself to some authentic German bratwurst or some gorgeous vegan treats.
The best part? These adorable chalets surround a picturesque ice rink for gliding those mince pies away. If you want my advice, go during the week to avoid the crowds. But with such a brilliant atmosphere to enjoy, Winchester is worth a visit at any time.
When: 21st November – 22nd December
Where: Winchester Cathedral grounds
Leeds Christkindlemarkt
Leeds Christkindlemarkt is so quintessentially German, it might as well have been dropped off from Dusseldorf. Each wooden stall is decorated by hand and boasts a bevy of traditional gifts and gifts and goodies.
This seasonal showpiece is full of festive gift ideas. Browse the best of local crafts or feast your eyes on authentic German treats including gluhwein, bratwurst and schnitzels. And if the weather takes a turn, there are plenty of places to seek shelter. Cosy up with a hot chocolate in the Kuh Stall chalet or enjoy a tipple in the Ski Hutte bar. With glockenspiels and pilsner aplenty, it’s full of apres-ski charm.
At the heart of Christkindlemarkt is a spectacular carousel. Perfect for children and big kids alike, it’s a great place to take the whole family. And with an array of live entertainment including face painting and balloon making, there’s nowhere better to get everyone together this Christmas.
When: 8th November – 21st December (10.30am – 7.30pm)
Where: Leeds’ Millenium Square
Edinburgh Christmas Market
Edinburgh’s Christmas market is undoubtedly one of the most picturesque around. Every year, this festive feast take over Edinburgh’s famous Princes Street Gardens with a huge selection of stalls, rides and events.
With over 150 stalls of Christmas goodies, there’s something for everyone. And the food on offer is second to none. Expect winter warmers from acclaimed local restaurants including Fox Hat, Alandas and the Mac Shack. Or for a wee dram, pop into the Johnnie Walker Bothy Bar.
But the biggest draw of this market is its rides. As well as bumper cars, carousels and a Christmas tree maze, visitors can soak up a sky-high view of the city in a stunning big wheel. There’s a great program of live entertainment too. Come along and find some of the biggest names in comedy, music and dance. Plus a special appearance by someone called Kris Kringle… whoever he is.
When: 16th November – 4th January (10am – 10pm)
Where: Edinburgh’s Princes Street Gardens
Cardiff Christmas Market
If you’re after something a little more sedate, Cardiff Christmas market is for you. This beautiful collection of wooden stalls gives local makers the chance to put their work in the spotlight. You’ll find everything from original artwork to handmade ceramics and decorations, all celebrating the best of Welsh culture.
All the food is local too. Tuck into freshly baked Welsh cakes and warming mulled cider. And top up your Christmas gift collection with handmade fudge, luxury chocolates and festive infused gins. Or treat yourself to some chestnuts (roasted on an open fire, of course).
One of the UK’s more peaceful Christmas markets, Cardiff is perfect for shoppers who like to take things at their own pace. And while there may be no helter skelters for the kids, don’t be surprised to see some familiar festive faces pop up around the town. So come along and explore the winding lanes of Wales’ capital.
When: 14th November – 23rd December (10am – 6pm)
Where: St John Street, Working Street, the Hayes, Hills Street and Trinity Street, Cardiff
Every year, we get a few telltale signs that the festive season is well and truly upon us. First, it’s
the mysterious appearance of advent calendars in mid-July. Then, it’s the popping up of
Christmas lights at the end of October. And now, we get the influx of tearjerking Christmas ads.
The tide of yule is truly unstoppable.
And while I could sit here and moan that every year Christmas starts earlier and earlier, I’ll let
you into a little secret. I love it. As soon as that final firecracker explodes on bonfire night, I set
my sights firmly on the big day.
We’re all the same aren’t we? Whether we admit it or not, I think we all crave the comfort and
cosiness of the most wonderful time of the year. Mulled wine and mince pies, warming hot
chocolate, hideous Christmas jumpers. It just can’t be beat.
Now don’t get me wrong. I know this time of year can be stressful with planning, parties and
picking out presents. But by embracing the Christmas spirit a little earlier, we can make the
whole season pass perfectly.
Here are my favourite ways to get ahead for Christmas.
The Scrooge Scale
First things first, where do you sit on the Scrooge scale? Let me know in the comments…
Bah Humbug
These people refuse to acknowledge glad tidings of any kind. While others sing carols and sip
on sherry, these festive fiends huff and puff their way through winter. If it were up to them, every
idiot who goes about with ‘Merry Christmas’ on his lips would be boiled with his own pudding!
Not literally I hope.
Blue Christmas
These Scrooge-lights are known for refusing mince pies before 1st of December. They prefer to
keep a lid on festive frolicking. But after a prosecco or two, they’re happy to belt out Michael Buble at the office Christmas do. Just don’t expect them to shake their belly like a bowlful of jelly.
Holidays are Coming
While they may seem calm and collected, these people have been secretly counting the sleeps
since Halloween. As soon as they down tools for the Christmas holidays, you’ll find them in a
reindeer onesie, watching Elf on repeat. They’ll usually have very strong opinions on the best
Christmas sandwiches too.
I wish it could be Christmas every day
These hardcore holly jollies will stop at nothing to spread Christmas cheer. They’ve been
hunting for gift ideas with laser-sharp precision for months. And don’t be surprised if they’re
humming Mariah Carey by the start of March. For them, boxing day is a day of mourning.
Ways to Stay Ahead of the Game
Wherever you sit on the Scrooge scale, we can all give ourselves a festive leg up by getting
ahead for the big day. Here are three of my favourite ways to make Christmas joyful again.
Put your diary to work
We all know that come December, it’s every man for himself. So start filling up your calendar
with all the important events ahead of time. From parties to school plays, make sure you know
when and where you need to be. If you’ve got little ones, keep an eye on school events too. You
never know when Year 3 might throw a last-minute Rudolph lookalike contest.
And when it comes to Christmas, there’s no such thing as being too pedantic. Grab yourself a
good notebook to pencil in shopping days, wrapping days and picking up the turkey days.
Having everything written down should (fingers crossed) make the whole thing a bit more manageable. Make sure you set aside a little me time too. Even Santa treats himself to a bubble bath every once in a while.
Decide who’s hosting the big day
With so much to do in the run-up to Christmas, it’s easy to forget about the 25th. So firm up now
who has the honour (or misfortune) of hosting the big day. If it’s friends or family then great! Just
decide how best to get there and find out what you should bring. Fizz and nibbles are always
handy. Or why not bring a thank you gift box?
Or if you’re in the driving seat this year, get an idea of who needs what. Has grandma gone
gluten-free? Is uncle Peter allergic to sprouts? The earlier you know the ins and outs, the more
time you’ll have to prepare.
Get ahead with gifts
Whoever decided it’s better to give than to receive has got a lot of answering to do. And while
Black Friday’s flash sales may send you scrambling to the stores, it pays to think a little smarter.
Unless, of course, you’re one of those super-shoppers who bought all their gifts in last’s year’s
sales. In which case, one gold star to you.
But if you’re anything like us normal people, you’ll likely have a list of friends, family, colleagues
and clients who are all hungry for presents. And now is the perfect time to stock up on a few
failsafe gifts.
Candles are a great option. Simple, stylish and suitable for all ages, they make lovely gifts. If
you’re looking for something neutral, I love the relaxing scent Earl of East’s Viagem.
And who doesn’t love chocolate? Whether you’re shopping for an old friend or your kids’
schoolteacher, artisan choccie is ideal for Christmas. My favourite is definitely Coco
Chocolatier’s gin and tonic dark chocolate. It’s moreish, refreshing and just a little bit naughty.
Have yourself a merry little Christmas
Whether you love it or hate it, give yourself a helping hand this year by embracing a bit of that
early Christmas spirit. And if you’re looking for more gift inspiration, check out our selection of
curated gifts. Until then my friends, happy Christmas to all and to all a good night.
Lexi x
Those breezy summer afternoons have nestled in the memory and Christmas still feels
comfortably out of range. But the best thing about this corner of autumn? The colours.
At no other time of year will walks to work bring audible gasps of, ‘Crumbs, that’s pretty!’ Trees
become canvasses. Pavements become Jackson Pollock paintings. And the sky shimmers with
flecks of rose gold. I like to think of it as nature’s little sweetener before handing us four months
of winter.
But these colours don’t just look good. They do good too.
Autumn’s gorgeous palette can have some profound psychological effects. These
blink-and-you-miss-them colours can change our mood, feelings and behaviours. They can
make us feel happy, sad, relaxed, impassioned. And the good news is we can employ these
colours to work their magic on us all year round.
Here are just some of the amazing things the colours of autumn can do. And a few ways you
can use them too.
Why do colours affect our mood?
‘Colours, like features, follow the changes of the emotions.’
So said one Pablo Picasso. And a century on from Mr P, colour psychology has turned into big
business. Nowadays, designers, marketers and artists all use colour as a way of invoking strong
emotional responses.
But research shows that our reactions to colours are incredibly personal. When presented with
certain shades, no two people will respond in the same way. In fact, our perception of colour
varies greatly depending on our upbringing, geography and cultural influences.
Take the colour white. For most of us in the UK, white is the colour of purity and innocence.
Think of a dove or East 17 in the Stay Another Day video. Ok, maybe not. But in Chinese
culture, white is the colour of mourning. So depending on where you’re from, white may invoke
sadness, hope or memories of a dodgy Christmas do.
So how do the colours of Autumn affect us? And how can we use them for good?
Red
I love the fiery reds of maple trees. Of all the shades of autumn, there’s nothing more
eye-catching. And red has quite a powerful force on our psyche.
Of all the colours, red the most dynamic. It can push and pull our emotions in different
directions. While we often see it as the colour of love and passion, it can also signify danger. In
fact, some studies have even shown that red can increase our heart rate through excitement or
fear.
So how can you bring this powerful colour into your home? Well, my advice would be to use it
sparingly. Red has been known to boost the appetite so why not create a statement wall in your
dining room? Or for something a little more subtle, add a splash of colour to your tableware.
Red is perfect for entertaining spaces too. After all, its natural energy is great for stimulating
conversation. So season your living room with colourful touches like cushions, artwork or candles.
Orange
For me, orange is the quintessential colour of autumn. I love the last warm hue of grand
deciduous trees. And it can do wonderful things for our mood.
Its natural warmth can make us feel energised and enthusiastic. Think of hazy sunshine or juicy
tropical fruits. Orange is the colour of creativity, determination, attraction and comfort.
But because orange is so distinctive, a lot of people can be put off using it. Just like Marmite,
you either love it or you hate it. But by bringing it into your home decor can add warmth,
character and cosiness to any space.
Use deeper shades in high traffic spaces like hallways and kitchens to make them instantly
more inviting. Or try a more citrusy tone in neutral spaces for a touch of the unexpected. It pairs
brilliantly with greys and whites so it’s great for colourful accents.
Yellow
Autumn gives us those fabulous golden yellows that are so rare to find. I love the in-betweeny
shades of golden-green you find on big leaf maple trees. And it can be a force for good in our
homes too.
The most energetic of the warm colours, yellow can make us feel happy and spontaneous. But it
can also invoke a feeling of freshness and optimism. So if you’re after gift ideas, yellow is a
great place to start.
But using it in the home can be tricky. Another opinion divider, yellow is seen by many as
childish but it’s a brilliant colour for adding freshness to stale spaces. Add a hint of yellow to
your entranceway to make your home extra inviting. Or if a room is short on natural light, yellow
is a great way of adding a little sunshine.
I love statement pieces like sofas and armchairs but if you’re after something a little more
discreet, try adding a little gold to your kitchenware and accessories. It’s a great attention
grabber.
Grey
As soon as the clocks go back, it feels as though all we ever see is grey. But there’s something
oddly comforting about a dreary November sky.
And even though we may reach for warm colours to brighten up the chilly nights, grey can do
brilliant things at this time of year. It’s sophisticated, balanced and effortlessly simple. And
adding it to your decor can make you feel in control of your home.
The best part is, it goes with pretty much anything. Add it to your kitchen appliances for a hint of
sophistication or add accents to your living space for some Scandi chic. Its neutrality means it’s
perfect for guys and girls while its modern feel makes it great for new home gifts.
Pictures: Tealight holder, vase, minimalist space.
So give it a go. Dip your brush in Autumn’s colours and see just how powerful they can be.
Tea, toast, Twitter and the tube. We all have our morning routines. And there’s something comforting about starting every day the same way. But when it comes to the evening, order can go out the window.
With work, relationships and social lives to juggle, it’s tricky to settle into a nighttime groove. But studies have shown that a regular bedtime routine can help improve our sleep, boost our energy levels and make us much more productive.
So what makes up a great routine? And how easy is it to introduce a snoozy schedule? I’ve been trying my best to get my forty winks and here’s what I discovered…
A good routine starts way before bed
For years, my bedtime routine only got as far as a cup of Horlicks in my jim-jams. But it turns out that the best routines should really start in the afternoon. If you’re a 9 to 5-er, everything you do from 4pm onwards can have a huge impact on your sleep.
Take caffeine. If you’re anything like me, you’ll be sipping on tea and coffee long into the evening. But because caffeine can stay in our systems for up to six hours, it might be time to scrap that after dinner mocha.
Instead, consider swapping to a caffeine-free alternative. Teministeriet have a beautiful range of herbal teas that won’t keep you up all night. Their aptly named Sleep tea is blended from rooibos and chamomile with calming notes of lemon balm and liquorice. It makes a great gift for students in need of some stress-relieving slumber.
It’s important to stay hydrated too. Drinking water throughout the afternoon and evening will make waking up the next morning much easier.
Put an end to the working day
Ah, the smartphone. Whoever decided having access to work emails 24/7 was a good idea? And studies have shown that being tethered to our work long into the night can have a serious impact on our sleep.
So wherever possible, settle on a cut-off point for work-related duties. Give yourself a specific time to leave the office or switch on that oh so underrated do not disturb mode. Giving our brains time to decompress after a long day of work is crucial for enjoying a good night’s sleep.
If you’re a commuter, use your journey to, quite literally, get away from the working day. Rather than checking work emails or running through tomorrow’s itinerary, treat yourself to a good book or an episode of your favourite podcast. Your brain and your body will thank you for it.
Give your body what it needs
Come evening time, it’s important to give our bodies the fuel they deserve. But what’s that old saying? Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a pauper.
In the UK, we love our hearty evening meals, especially when the nights draw in. But eating earlier and cutting back on big portions could do our sleep the world of good. Taking bigger meals during the day and easing off at night helps aid digestion and prevents any unwanted discomfort.
Watch out for sugar too. While we all need a treat every once in a while, overdoing it on sugar can lead to interruptions in our sleep cycle. If you’re looking for a sweet fix that’s a little less naughty, try Sabadi’s organic Bellezza chocolate. Naturally vegan, it’s cold-pressed with chia seeds, linseeds and bilberries for a low sugar slice of luxury. It makes a lovely gift for sleep conscious chocaholics.
Be wary of booze too. While a good glass of red may put us to sleep, most drinks will disrupt our body’s sleep patterns. So as per usual, enjoy in moderation and consider switching to water two hours before bed.
Take some time for you
So we’ve looked at the physical ways we can improve our bedtime routines. But a bit of mental TLC might be the strongest sleep aid of all. So enjoy a bit of me-time and treat yourself to your latest TV obsession. Be wary of the binge-watch though. It’s useful to stay mindful of the time and know when to call it a day.
And after a long day of work, it’s so important to take some time to reflect. Think about things that went well and things that could have gone better. Even if you’ve had the day from hell, appreciate your accomplishments and the ways you’ve succeeded.
Looking to express your thoughts and feelings? Well, a gratitude journal is a great place to start. Set aside some time each night to write down reflections, thoughts and concerns. Putting your worries on paper will stop them from ruining your sleep.
Cut out the screens
You don’t need me to tell you that screens do no good for our sleep. To get all fancy about it, blue light actually suppresses our brain’s ability to produce the sleep hormone melatonin. So try and cut them all out at least 30 minutes before bed.
Instead, try picking up a book instead. Just a few minutes of reading can help calm our nerves and release stress from our bodies. Not sure what to read? Check out a few bedtime book recommendations here.
Put your body on sleep mode
Right before bed, there are a few hacks we can use to send us strolling to sleepy town. Try adding a bath or a shower to your bedtime routine. Studies have shown that our bodies sleep best at a temperature of roughly 60 degrees. And after a hot wash, the cooling down process can induce sleepiness.
Another golden ticket to a great night’s sleep is a little bedtime yoga. A few simple stretches can trigger relaxation through the parasympathetic nervous system so our bodies can switch off for good.
What are your top tips for a great bedtime routine? Let me know in the comments and, until next time… sweet dreams.
We all remember the joy of birthday parties. Filling our bellies with squash and cake before burning off those E numbers with some musical chairs. They were marked in the diary and counted down to with glee, the true highlight of a 7-year-old’s social schedule.
I thought those parties had drifted peacefully into the memory. But how wrong I was. Now in throws of adulthood, I find myself slap bang in the middle of a frantic schedule of soirees, luncheons and full-blown bashes.
And, my word, how they’ve changed.
Where there once was watered down Ribena and soggy Monster Munch, now lie organic crudites and ethically sourced napkins. For the unordained, it can all be a bit much.
So whether you’re new to the party game, or already a seasoned pro, here are a few tips to keep your kids’ parties pain-free.
Be prepared for a lot of them
I mean a lot. From the age of 4 and up, there’s always a birthday party hiding around the corner. And just when you think you’ve cleared them for good, they start all over again. Plus, as your little one flexes their social muscles, the party pool will only get bigger.
See it as a plus though. A party invite is a seal of approval for friendships at any age. A deluge of invites probably means your kid’s doing something right.
The good news is, with so many in the diary, you should never feel bad for dropping out. Us parents are a forgiving bunch and a simple text is more than enough to justify a shindig no-show.
Be the guest you’d like to have
Whether you’re attending or, dare I say, hosting, kids’ parties are pretty demanding. Every bash needs parents to be on their best behaviour. So be the guest you’d like to have round. That doesn’t mean arriving four early to string up the bunting. Just think of little ways you can help affairs run as smoothly as possible.
You could always offer to ferry some guests or lend a hand with the cleanup. But I prefer to keep things simple by bringing some food and drink. A few extra snacks will always be welcome and hosts won’t say no to a bottle of red. Depending how manic festivities become, they might even offer you a glass.
The same goes for gifts
Dozens of kids means mountains of presents. But nobody wants their house filled with pointless plastic. So when it comes to gifting, my general rule is keep it simple and keep it quiet. That make-your-own megaphone may look like fun but mum and dad might think otherwise. Books, bags and colouring sets are always a safe bet.
If you really want to dazzle your hosts, why not come with a gift box? After an hour and a half of free childcare, it’s the perfect way to say thank you. Pampering goodies and a good dose of chocolate should do the trick.
Get social
Every parent knows that finding the time to socialise is easier said than done. That’s why kids’ parties are a great way of making new friends. Sure you’ll get on with some parents better than others but as you’ll be seeing a lot of them, it pays to make the effort.
I’ve met some of my closest friends by bonding over a game of pin the tail on the donkey. And as you’re all on the rollercoaster of parenthood together, there’s always plenty to talk about.
Keep it simple
Now, for the hosts. First of all, if you’ve decided to host a kids’ party, give yourself a pat on the back. This noble deed is a true sacrifice and parents across the land salute you. But the greatest advice that I can give is to keep things simple.
It’s always handy to have some fuss-free games up the sleeve. Pass the parcel remains a failsafe – the more layers of wrapping the better. But my favourite pastime for sugar fuelled nippers is a treasure hunt. Simply hide some goodies in easy to find places and watch them rumble away. Just make sure any valuables are out of harm’s reach.
Long live the cake
The showpiece of any successful party is undoubtedly the cake. But you don’t have to be a star baker to pull out a showstopper. So unless you fancy yourself as a bit of a Mary Berry, I’d stick to a pre-bought masterpiece. Besides, it’ll disappear so quickly that most of the guests won’t even get a good look.
Just make sure you’ve asked ahead for any dietary requirements. Nothing takes the edge off a well-planned party than an impromptu trip to A&E.
Know when to call it a day
Kid’s parties aren’t just for the kids. Think of each one as the perfect excuse to enjoy some guilt-free socialising. But with any party, it’s good to keep an eye on when things may be drawing to a close.
Sustaining and satisfying an army of littluns certainly takes its toll. So if your host is nearly wiped out, it’s best to head for the door. Besides, you’ve probably got two more parties to get to that afternoon.
I’m currently in the process of *gulp* moving house. And amongst frantically Sellotaping boxes and bubble wrapping woks, I’ve had great fun discovering old relics that I thought I’d lost.
My rummaging returned, in no particular order:
A Smash Hits annual from 1996 (PJ and Duncan anyone?)
Half a dozen Bang on the Door pencil cases (nowhere near enough in my opinion)
And a programme from my year 4 talent show (I still maintain I was robbed by Ben Washer’s plate-spinning act)
But my most noteworthy discovery was a small stack of handwritten letters from an old penpal of mine. Tucked away in a Tupperware box and covered in sparkly stickers. And reading through those old letters, I couldn’t help but shed a tear. Not from the quality of writing or the carbon footprint of all those air miles. But from the honesty of writing that sprawled across every page.
The saddest thing was, I couldn’t remember the last time I sat down to write a letter. So it got me thinking why has this great art died out? And how can we make sure it doesn’t disappear for good?
Here are five reasons why we should all pick up our pens again.
Letters make amazing gifts
When was the last time you received a letter? I’m not talking about bank statements or updates on that panda you adopted for Christmas a few years ago. I mean a real letter. Remember how good it felt?
The buzz of excitement that opening a letter brings makes it the perfect gift for family and friends. And taking the time to write one is a beautiful way to show them just how much you care.
Sure we can send heartfelt messages on our phones and computers, but sitting down to craft something by hand is a real act of love. So if you’re stuck for gift ideas, give letter writing a go.
And the beauty of a letter is, you can keep it forever. There’s nothing quite like returning to an old one months, or even years, down the line. When was the last time you did that with an email eh?
It’s good for the brain
Studies have shown that our addiction to instant messaging has squeezed our ability to write longer sentences. I for one am very guilty of letting auto-complete do the heavy lifting. But writing messages by hand can help kick our brains back into gear.
There’s some pretty nifty science behind it too. Our brains are split into two halves – the logical side and the artistic side. And writing letters by hand, especially in cursive, is one of the few tasks that uses both sides at the same time.
It’s great for our memories too. Writing things down helps commit information to our subconscious. And some evidence even suggests that letter writing can help us retain our memory as we get older.
So if you really want to keep your brain sharp, put down the sudoku and pick up a pen.
It helps us to be honest
Now, I love a good emoji but there are times when you can’t sum up the complex maze of human emotion with a salsa lady icon. There’s something about putting pen to paper that pushes us to be honest about our feelings.
Whether it’s at work or with friends, it’s so easy to keep our discussions on a surface level. But because handwritten letters aren’t designed to be deleted or discarded, they’re one of the few opportunities we have to let it all out.
Some psychologists suggest that writing letters is a great way of communicating in relationships, even if you never send them. The simple act of getting your feelings out on paper is a great way of seeing things clearly.
It’s a great tool for mindfulness
Have you ever noticed how your thumbs can whip up a text without you even thinking about it? Because we do it so often, electric messages can put our brain into autopilot. But by bringing us into the moment, letter writing can do wonders for mindfulness.
By dedicating time and commitment to just one job, our brain starts to unravel from the multi-tasking pressures of day to day life. Letter writing is a great way of slowing down and focussing the old noggin.
It’s a super stress buster too. Just like a good colouring book, the methodical process of putting pen to paper helps release endorphins that can calm our nerves. So if you’re looking to unwind after a long day, add letter writing to your nighttime ritual.
Self-reflection
As wonderful as letters are for the reader, they can be even more wonderful for the writer.
Letter writing is an incredible tool for self-reflection and can open our eyes to the things that really matter. Because the art of letter writing is naturally slow and considerate, it encourages us to think about things in a whole new light. It can help us reflect on things like our goals, ambitions and priorities.
It’s a great way of building relationships too. Sure, we can chuck a like on a friend’s holiday snap, but who would you take the time to send a letter to? The answer to that question may help you acknowledge the people you really treasure.
Writing a letter is one of the few chances we get to indulge in our own creativity. Whether they’re covered in scribbles or practically perfect in every way, letters are a great way of giving those you love something truly personal and unique to you.
If you’ve got itchy fingers, explore our range of letter ready stationery. Or for more amazing gift ideas, check out our blog.
Happy writing my friends.
Lexi x
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